November 27, 2003
losing my virginity
I got laid for the first time just before my 17th birthday. I thoroughly enjoyed the experience, but I was disappointed because I didn't feel DIFFERENT afterward. We both skipped school that day and did the deed in the back seat of a 1962 Dodge Dart in a patch of woods on Tybee Island. I went to my after-school job that evening and felt just the same as I always did there. I couldn't understand why nothing changed.
I really thought that I would look different or feel different after losing my virginity. I didn't. I simply felt like the same old me with another memory to cherish forever. And I still cherish that memory.
I learned a simple fact about life that day. Getting laid for the first time is wonderful, but it does NOT change you. You remain what you are and who you are. The heavens don't open with a purple glow and nobody stands aside and bows in adoration when you walk down the street afterward. It's really just another day.
It was a SPECIAL day, but that's all. Thank you, Judy, wherever you are today.
I'm glad you have happy memories of that time in your life.
I sure as hell didn't !
Most gals don't feel so great at the time they lose their virginity.
My loss was twofold, as I didn't say "yes".
I remember losing mine, fondly. The problem is, I think I found it again.
My first time did actually change me.
I had always been a rather serious youngster. A couple of days after the event occured, I remember my mom coming up to me and saying, "Greg, are you ok?"
To which I replied, "Sure am, Mom, why do you ask?"
Whereupon she said, "Because, lately, you seem so HAPPY!!
Because I was on the Albany, Georgia, swim team, I lost my "virginity" with a Tampon. Yes, it hurt. What was worse was I thought it was going to hurt each time I had to go to swim practice during those monthly times.
Forgot all about that until a few years ago. Guess that's why I enjoyed making love for the first time with my fiance.
I had never noticed that I "lost my virginity", so to speak, at the time I actually did, until you brought it up today and I thought about it. This was probably because I was trying like hell to not loose it due to a fear of pregnancy . Thus my girlfriend and I developed oral sex to a point where I was convinced that nothing could rival it. So that when I finally did "lose my virginity", it simply did not register in that way, and has not registered until today - especially since I was then no good at it, compared to the alternative. I was actually not that good at the alternative, but at least I learned from my [very sweet] girlfriend that a "blow job" is in fact a blow job, which has somehow become a top secret since then: it actually involves blowing, or at least a caress by breath. But, I digress, or regress, as you may prefer to see it.
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